The adventures of Arfa the Bear

Is there anyone you wish you had been a little more aggressive in chasing, to see what might have happened?

Mon, 20 May 2013 08:44:16 -0400

Considering I chased my current man to the states from New Zealand I think we were pretty aggressive with making sure we got the chance to be together and really figure out if what we have between us was sustainable and real.

To be honest I have never felt this way about another person, and if I had I would have tried very hard to be together. However I am one of those people who believe that everything falls into place at the end.

So if I had been on the chase and the man I was chasing gave me an indication that he wasn’t on the same level as I was, it would definitely make me pause and think. No-one enjoys someone professing their love and interest repeatedly and early on in the relationship unless the feelings are mutual.

Plus, I didn’t realize this at the time but looking back most of the guys I was interested in or had sex with already had partners (they were open obviously because I would hate to be ‘the other man’) or we were clearly there for a purely sexual reason.

But those are the pitfalls of being interested in older men. My partner got a little freaked when he first met my parents because of our age difference, He came to the conclusion that they would have had to deal with an age difference anyway because if we hadn’t pursued our relationship then my next relationship would have been with a more mature man anyway.

I know this is way late but I'm the wardrobe stylist of [yourblog]/post/34292888853/see-fashion-forward-interestingly-dressed-guys and I just wanted to let you know that the model is an XL on top and size 34 waist with huge legs. My boyfriend is also size 38 waist and has a big belly and I borrowed most of the tops from him. Don't give up hope!

Sun, 19 May 2013 15:45:00 -0400

hey bud, thanks for letting me know this.

I think you did an awesome job on your styling for the shoot and I haven’t lost hope what-so-ever with regards to finding interesting clothes. Although I have discovered that due to my odd proportions (a very long but comparably slim torso) my more structured formal wear (eg: suits) will never be a perfect fit straight off the rack.

I need to keep in mind how prepared and excited I was for interesting fashion because my desire to dress in an interesting and provocative manner has been somewhat muted lately.

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Thanks for getting in touch, and if anyone else has any questions or comments- fill up my ask-box! do it now!!

rakbeingrak: lunaki replied to your post: Other new things on the horizon Bodybuilding dot...

Wed, 15 May 2013 09:54:27 -0400

rakbeingrak:

lunaki replied to your post: Other new things on the horizon

Bodybuilding dot com, short cut to size or kris Gethins 12 week train. Google and go :)

Do those sites all have descriptions of the exercises they recommend? Are they all heavily dependent on equipment?

I have down the first two months (of three) of shortcut to size and it works. More emphasis on free weights because they build up more muscle control compared to confined machine movements. However there is a lot of cable work- especially for working your back and arms. They give you plenty of tips on correct form and how to complete the exercises, the workout creator has intro videos with tips and you can watch example videos that demonstrate how to do each exercise in the program.

I would recommend it, It starts off pretty strong and you definitely need to be following some sort of nutrition plan (even as simple as making sure you are getting lots of protein, all your required vitamins and plenty of sleep, they give you tips). The workouts are pretty long if your gym is busy, but I took my time and most seemed to last about an hour.

Go get it buddy!

filmben: mistersparkle: arfabear: sass it up Mr Bunyan, sass...

Tue, 14 May 2013 17:52:07 -0400

filmben:

mistersparkle:

arfabear:

sass it up Mr Bunyan, sass it up real good

is it really so hard to give people credit?

this poster was designed by Bill Ferenc.

http://popsiclesandicecream.tumblr.com

http://billferenc.com

I can reblog it finally now that it has proper credit! There’s also a sweet lady version, now go buy one!

look at these two, and now with proper credit given!

sass it up Mr Bunyan, sass it up real good

Tue, 14 May 2013 09:11:33 -0400

sass it up Mr Bunyan, sass it up real good

airbus-fanboy: Boeing 777-319ER Air New Zealand (ZK-OKQ). The...

Mon, 13 May 2013 12:18:22 -0400

airbus-fanboy:

Boeing 777-319ER Air New Zealand (ZK-OKQ). The world’s best looking 777 lands at London Heathrow.

Photo Credit: Tomasz K(ztk)

damn right, AIR NEW ZEALAND is an awesome Airline.

So this is how NZ advertises against excessive drinking (a large...

Mon, 13 May 2013 12:16:36 -0400

So this is how NZ advertises against excessive drinking (a large cultural issue in NZ).

The guy doing the flashbacks, he is super cute- can I have one more beersies, please!

I first met Kevin/BlamGlam on tumblr and then realized he was a...

Mon, 13 May 2013 00:39:06 -0400

I first met Kevin/BlamGlam on tumblr and then realized he was a friend of a friend when he posted picture of him at the woodshed in Charlotte, and this time we just happened to both be at the Charlotte AIDS walk- I didn’t even know he was gonna be there but I am super happy we finally met in person.

Looking studly!

Mon, 13 May 2013 00:35:01 -0400

cheers buddy- I love compliments :)

What a beautiful man, with beautiful tastes, hugs

Mon, 13 May 2013 00:34:39 -0400

oh shucks, thanks buddy

grisser: thedailybeard: TDB Song of the...

Fri, 10 May 2013 15:30:08 -0400

grisser:

thedailybeard:

TDB Song of the Day.

crazyseasaw:

New Navy - Beathe (Telepopmusik Cover)

plot twist: this remix is actually good.

God damn

wow, this is super good!

animaltoday: Hector’s Dolphin (Cephalorhynchus hectori) About...

Thu, 09 May 2013 23:52:00 -0400

animaltoday:

Hector’s Dolphin (Cephalorhynchus hectori)

About the size of a large dog, the Hector’s Dolphin is one of the smallest cetaceans, and is the only one endemic to New Zealand.

They prefer shallower waters near the coast, but depending on the season and weather conditions can move to about 25 miles off coast. They feed on almost anything that is about the size they can catch. Hector’s Dolphins are the only dolphin with a rounded dorsal fin. The benefits of this is uncertain.

In less than 50 years, the population of Hector’s Dolphins has decreased by about 85%, leaving less than 7000 in the wild today. Their main threat is over fishing and destruction of their habitat.

I used to swim with these gorgeous little things in the Akaroa harbor I really hope that we can help them survive and boost their numbers somehow.

semester finished and I may or may not be about to have a drunk rugby practice

Thu, 09 May 2013 17:53:26 -0400

I have finished for the semester and for the past year I have been in full time study so I am celebrating! 43 credit hours with (an assumed- one more class to report in) 4.0 GPA in a year.
Note; the usual full-time student workload is 24 credit hours per year (no summer semester) so I think I am rightfully pretty proud of myself and of Ron for putting up with me

rarrrr, I am Arthur hear me roar

for context this is the first thing I ever wrote on our first home PC, I matched it with a bad T-rex doodle …. Tumblr was inevitable for me

Yes, I am attracted to Beards andn certain non-kiwi accents (the...

Thu, 09 May 2013 15:50:00 -0400

Yes, I am attracted to Beards andn certain non-kiwi accents (the southern one is pretty awesome- just a plus that my hubby is from South Carolina then ain’t it!).
If you play Rugby that is awesome but not a check-box when it comes to attractions.
And usually I think that shorter guys are more attractive, mainly because it is more common for shorter guy to have that thicker athletic physique that I like- It is more uncommon in taller guys (for instance I am 6’4” and 276lbs with a 40” waist yet apparently come across as smaller in weight and waist size to most people).

What do you think my kinks are? why don’t you ask me!

dearscience: Cape Reinga by Chris Zielecki Yay, New Zealand

Thu, 09 May 2013 15:07:41 -0400

dearscience:

Cape Reinga by Chris Zielecki

Yay, New Zealand

Have you any kinks?

Thu, 09 May 2013 14:02:23 -0400

A few …. people can guess and I will nay or yay them, maybe.

Are you romantic?

Thu, 09 May 2013 14:01:50 -0400

I try to be romantic …. I don’t think I succeed very often unfortunately for my hubby.

Then again the fact we had a holiday romance, managed a long distance (other side of the world) relationship for a year and eventually found a way for us to be together makes the story of our whole relationship pretty romantic if you ask me.

pacodestroyer: ridinghi: egberts-plush-posterior: srsbronydram...

Tue, 07 May 2013 15:54:05 -0400

pacodestroyer:

ridinghi:

egberts-plush-posterior:

srsbronydrama:

pepper-puppy:

CLICK THE SQUARES.

THE WHOLE WORLD NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT THIS.

OH MY GOD THIS IS BACK.

FUCKING FUCK I LOVE THIS.

….so that’s how you get 800k+ notes.

everyone can put aside their differences and just agree this is awesome

they need to send this to Israel and Palestine.

ITS BACK!

this is addictive. i selected all squares

OMG! IT´S BACK!!!

oh god … what is this

Vicious …. this is hilarious and I am glad it uses the...

Mon, 06 May 2013 13:28:49 -0400

Vicious …. this is hilarious and I am glad it uses the actually characters for humour and not playing to the novelty of featuring and elderly gay couple

Kevin (blamglamzap) and me walking one of my crippled team-mates...

Sun, 05 May 2013 14:19:00 -0400

Kevin (blamglamzap) and me walking one of my crippled team-mates in the 2013 Charlotte AIDS walk.

The Charlotte Royals raised over $5000 for RAIN and we are very proud to have been able to attempt to help those whose lives have been touched by HIV/AIDS.